Resolutions

One of my friends posted her resolutions for New Years today. This one particularly caught my eye:

"5. Be more independent. I rely too much on my friends and parents.. I want to be the girl who doesn't need anyone to make it in life."

I used to feel this way. And I suppose I still do in some aspects. I'd like to be able to take care of myself financially. I want to be capable of finding stability on my own.

But I've come to realize that life is meant to be spent with others. We aren't meant to wrestle with it alone. I may be able to take it on by myself but it's much easier with help and support from others. And I'm here to offer that to my friends and family as well. Independence is great at times. But when it comes to coping with harsh realities of life, I want to have others around to support me.

What Christian is completely independent? If you are a follower of Christ, He is your crutch. You are not meant to face the world alone. He is there for guidance and support.