Because it's 5:46 and I Have Yet to Rant

Everyone has a list of seemingly tiny actions that erk them. I might as well have a leather bound novel. Today's pet peeve is rather common though. Like the person in front of you slowing down and speeding up every two seconds on the roadway.

When you do not feel like hanging out with someone, the appropriate response is, "Hey, not this time. I'm not feeling up to it," or, "Hey, I already had plans. Can we try this another time?" Do not attempt to feed me the "Hey, I don't have the money to make it up there," or, "I am going to be bogged down with homework." You are setting yourself up for an issue. Later, you can be sure that I am going to ask how your night is going or how the homework is coming. And when I recieve the response, "Let me know beforehand if you are going to drop in on me," and "I may end up going out with so and so to get a drink," I'm probably going to end up being pissed off. If you don't have the dang money, why the heck are you going out drinking? If you have so much homework, how are you making time to go out and socialize?

Someone needs to mature a bit and just let me know what is going on from the get go. I am a "big girl." I am not going to be offended by you already having plans. I am getting sick and tired of people trying to not hurt my feelings all the time. Stop lying to me to keep from "hurting my feelings."